You already know what good leadership looks like.
But when the stakes are high and someone pushes exactly the wrong button – a different version of you shows up.
This isn't a knowledge problem.
Nor a skills gap. Not even a psychological issue.
It's a nervous system hijack.
When your threat response activates, judgment, clarity and empathy go offline.
And biology is trainable.
With the right practice, the leader you intend to be is the one who shows up.
The Missing Science of Leadership Under Pressure
My PhD dissertation explored how to stay buoyant when life is hitting you hard, and why so much stress management advice is not only wrong but downright harmful.
I came to leadership development through an unusual door: years of research and practice in health behavior change. That work taught me something most leadership programs miss – that the gap between intention and action isn’t a discipline problem. It’s a nervous system problem. And it’s solvable.
For the last quarter century, I’ve worked with founders and CEOs of high-growth companies who can’t afford the invisible – but very real – cost of triggered leadership.
My work is built on a simple premise: your nervous system is not a personal development project. It’s an organizational performance lever.
When you learn to regulate it, you don’t just get steadier. You become more fully yourself under pressure. You’re able to bring the totality of your skills, experience, and judgment to the moments that matter most.
That’s buoyant leadership: your team can count on you to be the same person in the hard moments as in the easy ones.
Because the choppy waters are no longer running the show. You are.
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With a trained nervous system, you don’t just survive pressure – you lead through it. That’s buoyancy. When you’re ready to build it, let’s talk >>
How we work together.
Three ways to build buoyancy – in yourself, your team, and your culture
Executive Coaching
For the leader
One-on-one work with CEOs, founders, and senior executives who've hit the ceiling of what willpower and smarts can do. We train the nervous system patterns that show up when the pressure is real.
Leadership Development
For the team
Workshops and programs that give your leadership team a shared practice - not just a shared vocabulary - for staying clear-headed in high-stakes moments.
Organizational Consulting
For the company
When triggered leadership has become a culture problem, not just a personnel one. I help organizations redesign the conditions that drive reactive behavior.
The Buoyant Leader
Leading well under pressure doesn’t come from gritting your teeth harder. It comes from training your nervous system to work with you instead of against you. The Buoyant Leader gives you a concrete, trainable process for getting there.
Chairman Emeritus, WD-40 Company
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